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Throughout history, a great number of stories have been told through the male gaze. Even when female characters are centered, they’re often shaped by the desires of male artists. As a result, these works predominantly cater to male audiences. Yet, as the contemporary sociopolitical climate increasingly amplifies women’s voices, the cinematic landscape adjusts accordingly. Consequently, the voice of female creatives is amplified, which allows them to reclaim their own
narratives. British writer-director Molly Manning Walker’s feature film debut, “How To Have Sex”, is a prominent work in this fight for accurate representation. The director delivers an exclusively female perspective, free from male appeasement.
Set during summer on Crete, famous for its nightlife scene, the plot follows three British friends on holiday. Determined to have an unforgettable vacation, and longing for escapism, the three focus on sex, booze, and endless partying. However, beneath the sweaty neon-lit nights, the girls are challenged by the difficulties that come with growing up as women in a patriarchal society.
Directed by: Molly Manning Walker
Year: 2023
Country: UK, Greece
Length: 98 minutes
As the winner of the Un Certain Regard award at last year’s Cannes Film Festival, “How to Have Sex” has already proven to have an impact and artistic merit. Initially, the film may draw comparisons to reality shows like “Geordie Shore” and movies such as the hypersexual girls-gone-wild “Spring Breakers,” both of which are tailored for male pleasure and don’t provide too much intellectual depth in terms of exploring their female protagonist’s experiences. However, Walker’s film distinguishes itself in this ‘party’ subgenre. The usual surface-level scenes of partying and intercourse make way for a study of the psyche of its female main characters and a glimpse into the uniquely female experiences that are often overlooked in male-directed films. Walker sensitively presents thought-provoking and often bleak themes surrounding virginity, social pressure, and consent.
Despite its heavy themes, the film remains accessible with its brief 98-minute runtime, quick pacing, and true-to-life performances. Walker fully presents the story from the point of view of her female protagonists. This way, in a refreshing turn of events, instead of gazing at the characters, we’re looking through their eyes. In addition, the characters themselves are three-dimensional and portrayed with impressive rawness. The performances are so authentic, yet specific, that it’s likely that you notice personalities from your own life represented in the characters. Mia Mckenna-Bruce’s breakout performance as Tara, the youngest of the three central characters, is a particular standout. Her multifaceted performance is so vibrant and vulnerable, showcasing both her humorous charm and a palpable feeling of heartbreak, that relating to her character comes naturally to the viewer.
To label “How To Have Sex” as mere entertainment would be a disservice to Walker’s cinematic achievement. This painfully real coming-of-age portrayal of young women guarantees a lasting impression on the audience. Employing authenticism over didacticism, Walker encourages audiences to reflect on and discuss the female experience. The film riots against the neglect of female voices in cinema but also far beyond. For anyone who has been longing for accurate representation, “How to Have Sex” is an essential viewing.
“How to Have Sex” screened at the 2024 International Film Festival Rotterdam as part of the festival’s Limelight selection.
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